13 March, 2011

How to Handle stress


With both positive and negative effects being associated with stress, it is not a wonder that people stand confused about the whole concept. If you are one of them, understand the fact that 'excess of everything is bad' and that includes stress as well. Having a certain amount of stress in your life encourages you to push yourself beyond limits and achieve 'something extra'. However, when that stress exceeds reasonable boundaries and starts becoming your companion '24X7', it is time for you to take some action. Otherwise, not only your health, but even your personal life is going to suffer. If you do not how to handle stress and keep it confined within reasonable limits, the tips given below will come to your rescue. 

Ways To Handle Stress

Indulge In Physical Activity
One of the best ways to relieve stress is to indulge in a constructive physical activity, like running, jogging, walking, playing your favorite sport or even gardening. It will not only help take your mind off the stressful situation, but also make you feel good about yourself. Remember 'a healthy mind resides in a healthy body'.

Talk To Someone
The worst way to handle stressful situations is to keep everything bolted inside you. Rather, you should try to bring it out in the open, by talking to someone about it, be it your friend, colleague, spouse or family member. Even though they may not be able to find a solution to your problem, you will surely feel lighter after sharing the situation with them.

Learn To Accept Limitations
There are certain things in this world that are completely beyond our control. You need to recognize such situations and accept that you cannot change them at the moment. Just give them your best shot and let things fall into place, on their own. Finding against a situation that is determined by external factors and trying to change it will only make you feel frustrated. 

Take One Thing At A Time
In the fast-paced world of today, the word 'multi-tasking' is being used almost everywhere. While it is good to expand your sphere of responsibilities, trying to do too much at one time only leads to stress. Rather, you should make a list of all the things that need to be done and attempt them, one at a time. This will ensure that you get the work done without taking undue stress.

Learn To Accept Faults
If you want to lead a happy life, this is one mantra that you should always keep in your mind. Trying to achieve perfection is the goal that you should aim at. At the same time, you have to understand that mistakes are not something that you need to be ashamed of. Nobody in this world is faultless. Accepting that you are wrong will only help you learn more and go farther.

Don't Push Yourself Too Hard
One of the main reasons people are stressed out is that they expect too much from themselves. It is good to push yourself to achieve that something extra. However, you need to know the limit to that as well. For instance, expecting to work 18 hours a day, seven days of the week is too high a target, which is ultimately going to make you feel strained.

Learn To Enjoy Yourself
In the present day world, where competition is the order of the day, people are busy trying to outdo each other. Be it studies, career or extra curricular activities, the desire to excel is leaving them with no time for enjoyment. While it is good to strive for the number one position, it should never be at the cost of having fun or spending some nice moments with your loved ones.

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